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Here's
where the work comes into play. You will have to research wealthy
men. For one thing, you have to be able to sort the wealthy from the
stealthy. Yes, ladies, some men pose as wealthy. There are a lot more
faux-lexes than Rolexes out there. Just because you see a Porsche
911 and an Armani suit does not mean the man is a millionaire. He
could be in debt up to his great grandchildren's eyeballs. Remember
what we said about net worth? If you're shooting for the top and looking
to marry a millionaire u are going to need to read financial journals,
business magazines, and trade journals to find out who has the real
deal and who just looks like he does. Once you have done your homework,
the next step is to gain an understanding of your potential mate's
business dealings. Your looks will get his attention, but it is your
brain that will keep it. Knowing the ins and outs of his day to day
business will give you common ground.
Wealthy
men take their business interests very seriously. Often, they spend
upward of eighty hours per week or more working: closing deals, networking,
starting new projects, and tracking their investments. Unless you
don't mind spending all of that time on your own, you will need to
make yourself familiar with current financial trends, fluctuations
in the business cycle, new competitors, and government regulations
that could be affecting your husband's business interests and causing
him trouble. That way, he will be able to discuss issues with you,
bounce ideas off you, and feel a sense of solidarity with you, rather
than find you to be just one more demand on his already overscheduled
time. Another
factor comes into play: due to their demanding schedules, millionaires
often take off on a whim to unwind. You will need to be very flexible
if you want them to include you in their plans. Often, you will have
one opportunity to join them. Miss it, and you will probably regret
it forever. If you aren't where they are, you will not be able to
show them how much of an asset you would be to them. That millionaire
you want to marry? When he isn't working, he's at the club playing
golf, or out on the tennis court. He's midway down the black diamond
slopes on his fifth ski run of the day, exhilarated by cheating death
one more time. You want to marry a millionaire? You need to be where
he is. and that is where dating services enter the picture. If
you had to spend what it takes to be where you are most likely to
find wealthy men, you would be better off putting it all in savings
and investing it in the stock market. In fact, while you're waiting
to meet your prince, that is exactly what you should be doing. Instead
of spending a fortune trying to attract one, take the easier route.
Remember, our man is busy. He's working night and day, and has a very
short time available to look for a mate. So what does he do? He joins
a dating service. By doing that, he's already told you he is in the
market for a wife. That is half the effort already done for you, and
he did it himself. Now all you have to do is convince him that you
and only you have what he needs. This
is where things actually get easier. You see, he has filled out a
profile, detailing his interests. He has provided a description of
what he seeks in a wife. If you match his description, another half
of the remaining effort is done. Now all that is left is convincing
him that you are what you say you are. Be fun. Be entertaining.
But also, be careful. This is where it is the most tempting to resort
to sex, or at least, sexual innuendo, to get and keep his attention.
You will get his attention, all right, but I guarantee you will not
keep it. This man has hundreds of women vying for his attention. To
keep his eyes on you, you have to be more than a pretty face and a
warm body, you have to be a soul mate, a companion, a refuge from
the world. He is exhausted by the time he gets to you. If you are
just one more drain on his reserves, he is not going to take you seriously
as a wife.
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